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In other words, if you are unhappy with your relationship, you have no interest in having sex with someone you are not happy with outside of the bedroom. Men experience low libido, despite cultural stereotypes that might suggest otherwise. Compromise doesn't have to involve "sucking it up" or "just doing it" with a pejorative connotation.
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There are solutions if youre willing to work. You just don't have the motivation right now to get it there. (Yes, I know, in the very beginningnewness makes run amuck. Well, does the experience still make you blush? Sex is sexier when power negotiations are removed. The recent study, published in, social Psychology and Personality Science, has shown that when the partner (male or female) who feels low sexual desire indulges their partners sexual needs regardless, they strengthen the relationship Sex doesn't always have to be desired to have the desired. Just say calmly that because of the differences in your sexual appetites, you are so unhappy that you are considering doing something you really don't want.
Heres the good news. Remember the emotional and physical excitement you felt? By doing so, youll be taking charge of your sex life, but just remember to communicate with your partner about what they want/need to feel sexually fulfilled. Good relationships are built on this kind of caring.